They say cheating is a mental thing, and that a man who would go astray would go astray regardless of what the woman does.
The popular saying is that there is
nothing a woman can do to keep a man, that all the good deeds and all
the kindness and affection a woman offers a man would not be enough if
he has set his mind on being a ‘stray dog.’
And it’s true. Very true. Men who cheat
on their partners do not always do so because there is a character flaw
in such women. Some men with ‘perfect’ wives and baes still find their
way into the arms of other women and thus it begs the question, what can
one do to snag the right man and to become indispensable to such man?
There can be no absolutely correct answer to
that but the following tips have proven quite useful in several
relationships and marriages.
1. You’re easy to get along with
Women
who are not difficult to love, women who put effort into resolving
problems instead of attacking their man’s personalities, often draw the
affection of their man. A reasonable man recognizes a woman who is not
necessarily easy to walk all over, yet simple and straightforward in her
approach to the relationship and dating generally.
She does not play games, doesn’t have
unreasonable demands and gives the same level of positive energy she
asks for. Men would always want to go back home to women like these.
They are the type that men refer to as their ‘peace’.
2. You allow your man be himself
When your man can absolutely let his guard
down and not feel naked, when he can be his childish, scared self with
you and not feel less of a man, when he can speak of his struggles and
not feel judged, when he can express his sexual desires without being
rebuffed, when you actually make him feel welcome and treasured every
time, surely he’s going to actually enjoy spending time with you. No one
in their right senses would throw a treasure into the ocean. Men seldom
want to let go of a woman like this.
3. When you base things on honest communication, love, and mutual respect
As it has been clearly written above, a man
who would go astray would do so and that’s really just sad. But the
truth is this; with honest communication
of feelings, opinions, love and mutual respect between partners, it
becomes very unlikely that a man would want to leave that for something
else out there
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